5 Creative Ways to Honor a Loved One After Cremation For many families, the standard ceramic urn feels a bit too “stagnant.” We’re seeing a beautiful shift toward active memorials, options that let you touch, hold, or even grow a legacy. Whether you want to keep someone close on your desk or contribute to a local ecosystem, here are five…
Thoughtful Ways to Remember Those We’ve Lost
When my mom died, I bought myself a Felicity bracelet with her picture in it. I’ve worn it every day since, and sometimes when I am feeling particularly happy, or sad, or missing her even more than normal, I’ll look at it. Sometimes it makes me smile, and other times it makes me cry. From tangible keepsakes to living tributes…
What Not to Say to Someone Who’s Grieving
(and What to Say Instead) Grief can make even kind words feel heavy. The goal is not perfection, it’s presence. These common phrases that can unintentionally hurt and better ways to offer comfort. Category 1: Words That Minimize the Pain These phrases may accidentally make grief smaller or easier, which often makes people feel unseen. Category 2: Rushing the Process…
When Grief and Guilt Arrive Together
Grief alone is hard enough. Add guilt into the mix and the experience can feel unbearable. Many people live through loss while replaying choices, conversations, or moments they wish had gone differently. This combination can deepen the pain and leave people feeling stuck. Why Guilt Shows Up in Grief Guilt often emerges when the mind searches for meaning or control.…
Are the Stages of Grief Still Useful? How Grief Personas Add Clarity
For decades, the Five Stages of Grief made popular by Elisabeth Kübler-Ross shaped how people thought about loss. Denial, anger, bargaining, depression, and acceptance became shorthand for what grief looks like. Today, this model is facing criticism. Researchers argue that grief is not linear, not everyone experiences all stages, and trying to fit loss into a sequence can feel limiting.…
Beyond “Sorry for Your Loss”: Beautiful Expressions of Grief from Around the World
Grief is a universal human experience, yet the ways we articulate loss, sorrow, and remembrance vary profoundly across cultures and languages. While English offers a range of terms like “passing,” “demise,” or “departed” , other languages often provide phrases that delve deeper, offering unique perspectives, profound comfort, or a more nuanced understanding of the grieving process. Exploring these expressions not…
Grief Personas and the Five Stages: How They Interact
When Elisabeth Kübler-Ross introduced the five stages of grief in 1969, it gave people language for a difficult and often isolating experience. Denial, anger, bargaining, depression, and acceptance quickly became a common way to describe the emotional landscape of loss. Over time, however, grief researchers and counselors have clarified an important truth: grief is not linear. You don’t graduate from…
How to Support Someone Who Is Still Grieving: What to Say Months or Years Later
Grief doesn’t end after the funeral. For many people, the hardest part of grieving starts later – months or even years after the loss. If you’re wondering how to support someone who is still grieving, this guide will help you say the right things, show up meaningfully, and avoid the common mistakes that can make them feel more alone. Why…
When the Relationship Was Complicated: Grieving Estranged or Difficult Loved Ones
Grief doesn’t always come wrapped in love. Sometimes it’s tangled in silence, resentment, or pain. When someone dies and the relationship was strained, distant, or harmful, the grief that follows can feel just as complicated. You may not be mourning what was. You may be mourning what never happened. This kind of grief is real. It deserves space. Why This…
Anticipatory Grief: How to Cope When You’re Grieving Before the Loss
Grief doesn’t always begin after death. For many people, it starts earlier. It can begin with a diagnosis. A decline. A quiet realization that the end is near. This kind of grief is called anticipatory grief. If you’re already grieving before someone dies, you’re not alone. What Is Anticipatory Grief? Anticipatory grief is the pain that comes before a loss.…